Hope you are well. I really hope you are, especially considering that we’re going into the festive season. Now before we get into it. I know some of what is going to be shared in this article may not be the most popular, but someone has to say these things. Whether you give it any thought or not is 100% up to you.
How are you doing?
By now we should all know to actually answer that question.
Young and sizzling hot,
Very ready and able,
Arrogant and sexy,
And the list goes on and on….
Welcome back. Let’s jump straight into it.
The thing is about growing up, you are consistently evolving. You are shedding the parts of you that no longer look like you. Growing the parts of you that need work. You are evolving into the best version of yourself. That version of you, the best version, will require work, plenty of sacrifices, some awful tears as you work the areas that are hard to get rid of and then some more tears. There too, are beautiful moments, the ones where you turn your dreams into a reality, the times when you challenge yourself and succeed. There are beautiful moments and some not so beautiful. That is life and it is bittersweet, but it is to be lived.
’I don’t always feel fierce and fearless, but I do feel like I’m a rock star at being human’’ – Tracee Ellis Ross.
I am constantly reminded of the importance of having the right people around me. Having the right people in your life makes your journey, in life, easier, lighter and sometimes helps you put things into perspective.
I experienced the sundayest Sunday night again, when I was about to go to bed. My chest was so heavy. I felt some forceful wrenches in my chest.
Pang, after pang, after pang after pang.
Hey buddy. How are you today? How are you really ? Whether you skip that question or not is a good indicator of how comfortable you are with sitting with yourself and asking some important questions.